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Wednesday, May 4, 2011
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What to Expect The Second Year Q & A with Heidi Murkoff
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
I'd like to share an interview with Heidi Murkoff, author of the What to Expect series. Here is a recent Q&A regarding her latest book, What to Expect The Second Year:
Q: You say "terrible twos" is a terrible misnomer. Why?
A: First of all, the timing's off. So-called terrible twos behavior- those trademark tantrums, that negativity, that you-can't-make-me attitude that's typically associated with two-year-olds - usually kicks off (literally) soon after the first birthday, sometimes even sooner, and it can continue well past the third birthday.
But more importantly, the name's all wrong. Toddlers aren't terrible - they're terrific. Their behavior may be challenging at times, pretty hard to take on some days - but take a closer look, and you'll see that it's an essential part of their evolution as an individual....as an ever more fascinating, interesting, interested, complex, complicated, sometimes maddening, always adorable little person.
Q: So what causes these behaviors?
A: Two words: growing up! From those meltdowns on the frozen food aisle to that picky eating to those bedtime rebellions - those behaviors are your little one's way of letting you know: I am toddler, hear me roar. For the first time in my life, I'm not an extension of your arms. I'm my own little person, on my two little feet. I'm nobody's baby. Toddlerhood is, essentially, a battle for autonomy, a fight for freedom, a struggle to define a fledgling identity. It's the first time you see those kinds of behaviors - but it's definitely not the last. You'll get another peek somewhere around age 11 or 12 - there's a reason why toddler is called "the first adolescence".
Q: Who's the little girl on the cover?
A: That's an adorable 14-month old named Gigi, who perfectly personifies what I like to call "joie de toddler" - that toddler essence, that bubbly effervescence, that absolute, unequivocal unbridled, unabashed joy. It's that something-something, that je ne sais quoi you wish you could bottle, splash behind your ears, save forever. Toddlers are small, but their egos, their personalities, their range of emotions (whether it's giddy excitement that buzzes through the their whole bodies, or furious foot-stomping) - that's larger than life. Other ages have their charms - but toddlerhood is magical.
Q: What to Expect books are known for their month-by-month format. Why did you choose a topic-by-topic format for Second Year?
A: One of the words that I hope best describes What to Expect - at least it's one of the top priorities I strive for in everything What to Expect is: intuitive. What to Expect is designed to "get it" - to get you as a parent. To anticipate your questions and concerns and needs - and to offer up the answers and reassurance you're craving in the format that best fits the stage of parenting you're in. When you're expecting - month by month makes perfect sense. After all, who wants to focus on labor and delivery when you're still coping with 1st trimester quease? Same thing for the first year - a newborn comes with a whole different set of issues than a 7 or 8 or 10 month old. But in that second year, there's lots and lots of overlap. The behaviors may evolve - you'll go from primitive, almost laughable tantrums, for instance, to far more sophisticated levels of mommy and daddy manipulation - but they won't change from month to month. So it makes much more intuitive sense to divide the second year into topics instead. Feeding. Sleeping. Growth. Behaviors. Discipline. And to test out my intuition, I tapped into my moms at Whattoexpect.com - and sure enough, their intuition was on the same page. Topic-by-topic, quick to flip to, the tips you need when you need them.
Q: What are the topics parents most want to know about?
A: It doesn't take a rocket scientist, or even a parenting expert to figure out what parents most want to know about when they have a toddler in the house. Pretty much the same topics as when they have a baby in the house - only with variations on the theme. Growing - is my toddler to thin, too chubby, too big, too small? Development- when will he walk? Talk? Kick a ball? Eat with a spoon? Is she hitting all those milestones? And speaking of hitting, how about behavior? Why does he hit? Bite? Not share? Throw tantrums? Say no when she means yes? Feeding - why won't she eat her veggies? Why won't he eat anything that isn't beige? What if she won't drink milk? And of course, sleep - as in, how can my toddler get more...so I can get more? Why is bedtime always a battle? Why won't he break for a nap? And what about night walking?
You'll find the answers to these question and many more in Heidi's latest book: What to Expect The Second Year.
Be sure to enter my current giveaway for a copy of the book and a prize pack valued at over $123!
Q: You say "terrible twos" is a terrible misnomer. Why?
A: First of all, the timing's off. So-called terrible twos behavior- those trademark tantrums, that negativity, that you-can't-make-me attitude that's typically associated with two-year-olds - usually kicks off (literally) soon after the first birthday, sometimes even sooner, and it can continue well past the third birthday.
But more importantly, the name's all wrong. Toddlers aren't terrible - they're terrific. Their behavior may be challenging at times, pretty hard to take on some days - but take a closer look, and you'll see that it's an essential part of their evolution as an individual....as an ever more fascinating, interesting, interested, complex, complicated, sometimes maddening, always adorable little person.
Q: So what causes these behaviors?
A: Two words: growing up! From those meltdowns on the frozen food aisle to that picky eating to those bedtime rebellions - those behaviors are your little one's way of letting you know: I am toddler, hear me roar. For the first time in my life, I'm not an extension of your arms. I'm my own little person, on my two little feet. I'm nobody's baby. Toddlerhood is, essentially, a battle for autonomy, a fight for freedom, a struggle to define a fledgling identity. It's the first time you see those kinds of behaviors - but it's definitely not the last. You'll get another peek somewhere around age 11 or 12 - there's a reason why toddler is called "the first adolescence".
Q: Who's the little girl on the cover?
A: That's an adorable 14-month old named Gigi, who perfectly personifies what I like to call "joie de toddler" - that toddler essence, that bubbly effervescence, that absolute, unequivocal unbridled, unabashed joy. It's that something-something, that je ne sais quoi you wish you could bottle, splash behind your ears, save forever. Toddlers are small, but their egos, their personalities, their range of emotions (whether it's giddy excitement that buzzes through the their whole bodies, or furious foot-stomping) - that's larger than life. Other ages have their charms - but toddlerhood is magical.
Q: What to Expect books are known for their month-by-month format. Why did you choose a topic-by-topic format for Second Year?
A: One of the words that I hope best describes What to Expect - at least it's one of the top priorities I strive for in everything What to Expect is: intuitive. What to Expect is designed to "get it" - to get you as a parent. To anticipate your questions and concerns and needs - and to offer up the answers and reassurance you're craving in the format that best fits the stage of parenting you're in. When you're expecting - month by month makes perfect sense. After all, who wants to focus on labor and delivery when you're still coping with 1st trimester quease? Same thing for the first year - a newborn comes with a whole different set of issues than a 7 or 8 or 10 month old. But in that second year, there's lots and lots of overlap. The behaviors may evolve - you'll go from primitive, almost laughable tantrums, for instance, to far more sophisticated levels of mommy and daddy manipulation - but they won't change from month to month. So it makes much more intuitive sense to divide the second year into topics instead. Feeding. Sleeping. Growth. Behaviors. Discipline. And to test out my intuition, I tapped into my moms at Whattoexpect.com - and sure enough, their intuition was on the same page. Topic-by-topic, quick to flip to, the tips you need when you need them.
Q: What are the topics parents most want to know about?
A: It doesn't take a rocket scientist, or even a parenting expert to figure out what parents most want to know about when they have a toddler in the house. Pretty much the same topics as when they have a baby in the house - only with variations on the theme. Growing - is my toddler to thin, too chubby, too big, too small? Development- when will he walk? Talk? Kick a ball? Eat with a spoon? Is she hitting all those milestones? And speaking of hitting, how about behavior? Why does he hit? Bite? Not share? Throw tantrums? Say no when she means yes? Feeding - why won't she eat her veggies? Why won't he eat anything that isn't beige? What if she won't drink milk? And of course, sleep - as in, how can my toddler get more...so I can get more? Why is bedtime always a battle? Why won't he break for a nap? And what about night walking?
You'll find the answers to these question and many more in Heidi's latest book: What to Expect The Second Year.
Be sure to enter my current giveaway for a copy of the book and a prize pack valued at over $123!
Free Public Garden Admission on May 6th
Monday, May 2, 2011
Celebrate spring with FREE admission on National Public Garden Day, May 6, 2011. Sponsored by Better Homes and Gardens. Many of the countries' biggest and most beautiful gardens are participating in this event. You may print as many vouchers as you need for your party! This would make a great field trip or just a fun family day out. Can you say "picnic"? Or, as my littles call it, "picpic" ;)
To grab this freebie visit Better Homes and Gardens, select your local area from the pull down menu and print your vouchers. Must be redeemed on May 6, 2011.
Here are a few pics from our last trip to the botanical gardens. It was lots of fun, but gosh, I had forgotten how long it has been. We had only 3 kids then and I had long hair and fewer wrinkles ;) Guess we now have a great excuse to go back!
To grab this freebie visit Better Homes and Gardens, select your local area from the pull down menu and print your vouchers. Must be redeemed on May 6, 2011.
Here are a few pics from our last trip to the botanical gardens. It was lots of fun, but gosh, I had forgotten how long it has been. We had only 3 kids then and I had long hair and fewer wrinkles ;) Guess we now have a great excuse to go back!
Aloha Friday!
Friday, April 29, 2011
Greetings bloggy friends and Aloha! I hope you have all had a safe and happy week. My heart and prayers go out to all those touched by the terrible storms and destruction this week.
My question for you today is: If you were given $100 grand to start a new business what type of business would you own?
My answer: a children's bookstore with a small bakery and coffee bar - the kind of place I'd like to hang out ;)
Thanks for stopping by today! Your comments make my day. Be sure to link up your posts here and visit Kailani at An Island Life for more Aloha Friday fun.
Don't forget to enter my current giveaway for a copy of the new What to Expect The Second Year.
What To Expect The Second Year Book Launch and Giveaway!
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Meet the newest member of the What To Expect family - What to Expect The Second Year. America's bestselling parenting series has launched a new book all about toddlers, from 12 to 24 months. Heidi Murkoff's latest addition to the What to Expect series is the complete why, when and how-to guide for the second twelve months of parenting. This book is filled with invaluable information on all things toddler. From feeding to first words, tantrums to toddler-safe toys, and weaning to whining, all of your toddler questions are covered.
I have been a fan of the What to Expect books since I became pregnant with my first child over 9 years ago. These books offer insight, inspiration and peace of mind to parents when they need it most. With proven solution strategies and no-nonsense advice, having a copy of these books in your home library just makes sense. And, I have found that they are always welcomed baby shower gifts for expectant parents.
And what's more, you'll find a plethora of helpful information and a supportive community at WhattoExpect.com.
With the launch of Heidi Murkoff's latest book, I was offered an opportunity to host a giveaway for my lucky readers! You can enter here to win a copy of What to Expect The Second Year, plus a prize pack that includes: Tommee Tippee Explora cup 9 mos + , PediPed Originals 12-18 months, Johnson's Baby BUbble Bath & Wash, Summer Infant Swaddle Me 7-14 lbs, Totsy card for $15 off, NUK Active Cup, NUK TrendLine pacifier SZ 2, Platex Lil' Gripper Spout Cup !
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Be sure to leave a comment for each entry and a valid email address. Open to U.S. only. Winner will be chosen by random integer selection. The winner will have 48 hours to claim the prize or a new winner will be chosen. Contest will close on May 9, 2011 at 12:00 AM EST. Good Luck!!!
**I received no compensation for this post, but was offered a copy of the book and the prize pack valued at over $100 to giveaway to my readers.**
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Wednesday, April 27, 2011
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